That first time, as an… (part 1)

After an hour drive you ring the doorbell. A whole two hours in advance you prepared for this.

What do you mean with 2 hours? Let me explain. You took a long hot shower making sure every inch of your body is clean. You washed your hair making sure it has a nice fresh soapy smell. You waxed your legs, armpits, removed any kind of hair on other body parts. Yes, I mean those tiny hairs on your toes, the ones next to your nipples and that stubborn hair on your chin that keeps coming back too. And of course, we can’t forget our private parts. Doing it secure, from the front and the back, even the outer and innerlips, but keeping a tiny line on the pubic bone. Because well, I don’t like to took like a little girl with my yoni completely shaved. But that’s just my personal preference.

Once you get out of the shower, you ain’t done yet. Time to paint your nails of toes and hands. If they ain’t already done yet. In that sense I prefer to have fake nails (gel or acryl), in that way I have one thing less to prepare. Thinking economical you see. Once you got those 20 parts covered in a nice red colour, or maybe something more natural, you moisturize your body. Because you need to wait anyway before the nailpolish gets dry. Time to dryblow your hair and style it in your way, making sure it stays in place with some gelspray, but not too much, you don’t want it too stiff. Some perfume is always nice. Unless the client explicity says you better not have anything on yourself. His wife might smell it when he gets home, you know ;-) Then comes make-up. I am not a queen in this. I remember one of my girlfriends could spend more than 1 hour on this, and indeed then you get an astonishing ‘before & after’. I prefer to keep it neutral, to have a more natural look. Which in general is more liked by clients too. Don’t overdue it with foundation. Make sure your eyebrows are in a nice shape and lash extensions are again a time saver :-) Lipstick is optional, it depends what your activities will be when you go on a date. For a dinnerdate is it suitable, but don’t wear any if you meet in a hotel or at a clients home. It will get ruined after that first kissing episode.

When you think you are done… Nope you still need to dress, right. Underwear is an understatement. You betta wear that right lingerie girl. And then you get dressed, finally! Clothingstyle in which YOU feel comfortabel and sexy. I remember I went for a very stylish black lace body and a ‘little black dress’. You can never go wrong with that, right?. High heels on. Pack your bag and leave. I will make another post about the ‘essentials’ that need to go in that special ‘bag’. Let’s get in the car and drive tot that first date.

I remember it was in the middle of the summer. Whilst driving one hour, my armpits were already gushing. Luckily I had some toiletpaper in the car, to dep dry from time to time.

Then you ring the doorbell, and he opens the door.

TO BE CONTINUED